I am =
proudly NOT Scandinavian and felt only mild sympathy for the Anderson’=
;s, Jensen’s, and Oleson’s of my Minnesota youth. Always heard =
that you can tell a Norwegian, but you can’t tell them much. I’=
m not sure I ever met a full-blooded Dane in my life, but the scale reveals=
that I have met more than my share of scrumptious cream cheese Danish at t=
he coffee shop. The only Dane I can remember from high school literature cl=
ass was this sad kid named Hamlet.
That =
said, I am greatly enjoying a writers’ workshop time with a full-to-o=
verflowing Danish stock teacher. We meet to learn, share, write, encourage =
(no red pencils allowed), and hone our craft. Now at 77 with a lifetime of =
writing sermons, textbooks, and college lecture notes, I needed to “l=
oosen up” my creative side. Our first gathering helped me set the sta=
ge for this “course correction” as I was introduced to the Dani=
sh lifestyle of “hygge”. And once you meet “hygge”,=
nothing is the same anymore.
She taught=
that “hygge” (pronounced “hoo-ga”) is from Denmark=
and that Danes are the happiest, most contented, mellow, and relaxed popul=
ation in the world. There is no English equivalence; it is a blend of ̶=
0;coziness”, “harmony”, “contentment”, and &#=
8220;peace” in life. A “hominess” for the soul, or =
as one writer said, “cocoa by candlelight”.
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So, instead of word-smithing my first biographical foray, I=
decided to discover “hygge” for myself, unpack my cluttered br=
ain, and slow down my remaining years to a distant drumbeat I’ve neve=
r heard. I found the “Hygge Manifesto” and share it with you.&n=
bsp; Ten Words (this is NOT a sermon, so more than three points is allowed)=
, all 100% Danish. With a short explanation phrase attached.
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Atmosphere: Turn Down the Lights.
Presence: Be Here Now.
Pleasure: T=
reat Yourself.
Equality: We Over Me.
Gratitude: Take It In.
Harmony: It’s N=
ot a Competition.
Comfort: Get Comfy.
Truce: No Drama.
To=
getherness: Build=
Relationships
Shelter: This Is Your Space
At our house tonight we realized a little personal “hygge”. =
We put on an oboe concerto, closed the blinds to the rain outside, and lit =
a candle. Then put the kettle on and donned comfortable sweatpants, sweater=
, and thick socks. Sat at the table with a 300-piece picture puzzle and fel=
l into that “zone”. Just the two of us in our retirement cottag=
e ten blocks from the apartment where we lived as newlyweds 55 years ago in=
a frantic pace of grad school. Breathing. Smiling. Sometimes laughing, but=
most often letting our minds just “be”. Peaceful in sear=
ching for that piece.
I admit I don̵=
7;t have all the answers, but I’m beginning to like those Danish on a=
slightly higher plain than just at the bakery.
~~
Dr. Bob Griffin
bob@gr=
if.net www.grif.net
“1 cross + 3 nails =3D 4 given”=