After learning my flight was detained 4 hours, I heard the announcement: if
anyone in the vicinity of gate 4-A understands any Arabic, please come to
the gate immediately.
Well, one pauses these days. Gate 4-A was my own gate. I went there. An
older woman in full traditional Palestinian dress, just like my grandma
wore, was crumpled to the floor, wailing loudly. Help, said the flight
service person. Talk to her. What is her problem? We told her the flight was
going to be four hours late and she did this.
I put my arm around her and spoke to her haltingly. Shu dow-a, shu- biduck
habibti, stani stani schway, min fadlick, sho bit se-wee?
The minute she heard any words she knew – however poorly used – she stopped
crying.
She thought our flight had been canceled entirely. She needed to be in El
Paso for some major medical treatment the following day. I said no, no,
we’re fine, you’ll get there, just late.
Who is picking you up? Let’s call him and tell him. We called her son and I
spoke with him in English. I told him I would stay with his mother till we
got on the plane and would ride next to her.
She talked to him. Then we called her other sons just for the fun of it.
Then we called my dad and he and she spoke for a while in Arabic and found
out of course they had ten shared friends.
Then I thought just for the heck of it why not call some Palestinian poets I
know and let them chat with her. This all took up about 2 hours.
She was laughing a lot by then. Telling about her life. Answering questions.
She had pulled a sack of homemade mamool cookies – little powdered sugar
crumbly mounds stuffed with dates and nuts – out of her bag and was offering
them to all the women at the gate.
To my amazement, not a single woman declined one. It was like a sacrament.
The traveler from Argentina, the traveler from California, the lovely woman
from Laredo-we were all covered with the same powdered sugar. And smiling.
There are no better cookies.
And then the airline broke out the free beverages from huge coolers –
non-alcoholic – and the two little girls for our flight, one African
American, one Mexican American-ran around serving us all apple juice and
lemonade and they were covered with powdered sugar too.
And I noticed my new best friend – by now we were holding hands – had a
potted plant poking out of her bag, some medicinal thing, with green furry
leaves. Such an old country traveling tradition. Always carry a plant.
Always stay rooted to somewhere.
And I looked around that gate of late and weary ones and thought, this is
the world I want to live in. The shared world.
Not a single person in this gate – once the crying of confusion stopped –
has seemed apprehensive about any other person.
They took the cookies. I wanted to hug all those other women too. This can
still happen anywhere.
Not everything is lost.
[by Naomi Shihab Nye (age 61), “Wandering Around an Albuquerque Airport
Terminal.”]
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Dr Bob Griffin
[email protected] www.grif.net
“Jesus Knows Me, This I Love!”